一个值得注意的前提不竞争的教育和集体主义的教育等等闭嘴家族是不是有钱没钱都可参考的教育看到两个地方:1.小君君哭倒在老师怀里感觉她背后曾经站着一个十分严苛的母亲母亲有多严苛就说明孩子“活出来”(live up to and grow out of)有多艰难(尤其是女孩);2.日本园长订购菜苗看到快递小哥跪地托举苗盘送到园长眼前(当然这有可能是个误解比如取景之类的需求)总体来讲教育应该是不二的一个人应该又自由又自律既能高度自主又能高度协作一个现实是所有个体高度不自由同时高度不合作的内耗
04/19/2022, @ The Criterion Channel. “Like there was no ground beneath her…like she was sliding down a slope…sinking…always on the verge of drowning…with nothing around her.” “I didn’t get better. I’ll never get better. Never.” “We run around and around but end up the same as before.”